Shimla Stories
Marriage - A Shimla boy marrying a Shimla girl. This is my story and I am the Shimla boy marrying a Shimla girl who has not yet been identified. In Shimla, in the good old days, everything happened by word of mouth. The era of shadi.com or matrimony.com was about 35 years hence. The ultra conservative Sud/Sood community, mostly looks within the community to find a match. My mother back in Shimla was in an overdrive to find a match for me. My parents had moved back from Shimla to the warmer climate of our village in Kangra district after a lifetime of business in Shimla. They had less contact with the next generation, so my mother made frequent trips back to Shimla to find a decent girl for me. My sister in Shimla often wrote about her arrival and departure, but never threw a hint about the purpose. My mother’s main requirement for the girl was ‘pretty, highly qualified (matching mine) and if possible qualified in the kitchen also’. On her third trip, someone mentioned that a gi...